Before. I was abducted by one, who thought I might make a good sacrifice. The danger and the help of a friend awakened me to my powers and I destroyed him.

[Casually, she flicks a finger against her teacup, making a tinny, chiming sound.]

As for that, I have no idea. My bloodline has a long history, but my grandfather doesn't know I'm Mars. He will in time, but protecting him was more important.

And you have nothing to apologize for, I opened myself up for a reason.